Another football season has come and gone. I think I enjoy football almost as much as Ty does. Football is his outlet, and it makes my heart smile to see him play. He is growing up much too fast although he promises me he will always be "my boy."

It has been interesting this year with Tyler playing at the middle school instead of MAA. It introduced lots more of his friends in to the picture. It was not unusual for me to see groups of young teenage girls walking around at the games with #50 written on their cheeks, which obviously thrilled Tyler. I enjoyed the 2010 season and spending the time with Tyler. I look forward to next year and all the joy I am sure it will bring.

Like Father, Like Sons

I miss my dad every day. There were many painful realizations in the first year after he died. There were so many things that I enjoyed about him and so many things he had just always done for me. One of the things I realized in that first year after he died, was that I would now need to pay someone to change my oil. I had never paid anyone to work on my cars, ever. It was a small thing, but still it was a dad thing. He was good at it, dad was even a part time mechanic at one point in his retirement. When it came to cars, Dad just always took care of it. I couldn't even imagine going to a repair shop...

Little did I know of the hidden treasure God sent in my husband Stan. He is handy beyond belief and can fix just about anything. In the picture above, Stan is teaching Tyler how to change the disk breaks on our Honda Odyssey. I am thankful to have his talents and knowledge to lean on and even more thankful that he is teaching our sons how to be just as amazing as he is.

She always makes me smile.

Last night, we met the Browns at Starbucks. This is not an uncommon event for a Saturday night. Once we had had our drinks, we sat down to talk. I started sharing about a class that I am taking at work and new terminology for which I need to memorize lots of definitions.

I made an off-handed comment, "Who knows what binomial means anyway?"

Holly pipes up out of nowhere and says "It means you aren't getting any dinner!"

Get it? No meal? I love that girl.

The Rest of the Kids

Their pictures dropped off my post yesterday, but they are always on my mind. I couldn't be more proud to call them my kids. Love you - K

Like peas and carrots:


Our adventurous traveler:

Almost October

I looked at the calendar yesterday and it hit me. It is almost October. You and I both know that once October starts, it is holiday season. It will be next year before we know it! This year has brought challenges that draw us together, namely my illness and the loss of Millie, Stan's mom. But it has also brought so much laughter and happiness.

I began homeschooling Tyler in March. It has worked really well so far. I had no idea how much I would enjoy the time we would spend discussing prepositions and pre-algebra. He is growing up so fast - as they all have. Knowing he is the last one, makes me want to hold him tighter. He keeps reminding me that this strategy will not work. He is playing left tackle on the football team at Twin Lakes Academy Middle School. We are enjoying watching him as he is growing in passion and skill for football.

The rest of the gang are all doing well. Chris is still in California. He found a new job and is working on getting his own place. Matt is still in Orlando finishing up his time at UCF. I miss he and Ashley both. I sure do hope they move home when they are done. Josh is now working full time at O2B Kids. He is teaching guitar and loving it. He is also still leading the praise and worship for the senior high group at church. Katie Babie is now a junior in high school. Where does the time go? Between band, chorus and praise band, there is precious little time left. We sneak it in anywhere we can. Adoring her has always come so easy to me.

Stan and I have enjoyed the summer. We have traveled to Boston, Louisville and will be in Texas next weekend. We are currently heads down in home improvement projects. We love to shop and plan - still working on the execution phase. Today he and my brother Will are finishing a garden path of flagstone in our front yard. Seeing it will always make me happy as we planned it together and I watched our vision come to life. Our next project will be the kitchen!

Love and blessings to all of you. - Kayti

Mildred Ann Furlong

Mildred Ann Furlong, 78 went to be with the Lord on July 14th, 2010. Millie was born on Dec 8th, 1931 to Charles and Marie Stoess. She married her husband Walt in 1954 and they raised 4 children, moving to Jacksonville, Florida in 1972. Millie was a loving wife and mother, retired nurse and proud granny. She is preceded in death by her father Charles Stoess, mother Marie Stoess, sisters; Thelma Stoess, Betty Stoess, Wanda Glover.

Millie is survived by her devoted husband Walter C Furlong, Jr, her children Lillian Erami (Mohammed); Walter C Furlong III - Skip (Stella); Janet Moore (Sam); Stan Furlong (Kayti); her grandchildren Walt Furlong IV; Charlie Furlong; Simeen Erami (Nathan); Chris Furlong, Sohaila Erami, Ardy Erami, Matt Furlong, Josh Furlong, Greg Moore, Katie Furlong, Zach Moore, Tyler Short and Marquee Moore; sisters Mary Spradlin (Bobbie) and Debbie Reese (Alan); brother Jack Stoess (Sharon), many nieces, nephews, friends and family.

The family will receive guests and visitors Friday July 16th from 4pm until 7pm with a memorial service immediately following at the Southern Grove Clubhouse at 8601 Beach Blvd. In leu of flowers, donations can be sent to Community Hospice Hadlow Center, located on Sunbeam Road, as this organization played a special role in Millie’s comfort and peace as she prepared to pass on and take her place in heaven.

You Complete Me - Happy Anniversary Boo

Thursday is our wedding anniversary. It may be hard to believe but it has been 6 years since Stan and I were joined in marriage. In the time since we were married we have worked to meld our two families together, I have gone from 2 in my house to 6 in our house and then to 3, we have had 2 elementary children move on to junior high and high school, we have both changed jobs, bought cars, we purchased our first home together and made the big move to Mandarin, watched 3 sons graduate high school, and even have our first grandkitten Ollie.

I can't imagine my life without Stan, the kids and the Furlong family that came with him to our union. I know that my extended family feels the same. I am not sure if you can imagine the laughter Stan brings to me - I definitely married the class clown. (But he is sooo handsome). I know I was born to be here, right where I am now and I sooo much look forward to the next 6 years of our adventure together in this blended family that God has so richly blessed me with.

My darling husband, I love you completely - all of the things I know about you and all of things I still have yet to learn. I will be the greatest student of your needs and your best cheerleader, for the life you have shared with me is a beautiful gift. ~Shmily~

It's Been A While

It's been a while but I decided to post an update today. This is an interesting time for us as we prepare to say goodbye to Stan's mom, Millie. How bittersweet it has been over the past few weeks to sit around with family and revel in the past, telling stories and laughing til early morning hours. Painful to make plans for a future that doesn't include her smiling face and cup of hot tea. Joyous to imagine Millie sitting at the feet of Jesus. Millie only really asks for her momma now. I talked to her sister Debbie yesterday and she told me to tell Millie to go and find her momma. We will be fine here.

I can't say enough about our Hospice experience so far. The doctors and nurses here treat us all like we are family. The facilities feel more like a Bed and Breakfast than anything else. I am in awe of the care that they are providing to all of us. I will always be impressed by what is offered here.

One thing is for sure, taking this journey together has changed our family. We have all come together, thankful for how close we have always been and the time we have to spend together. This chapter of our lives has bonded us together and strengthened our faith and love in one another. Once again, thank you Millie.

Almost Thanksgiving

I love this time of year. The leaves change colors, the air gets cool and I remember falling in love. Fall is so exciting. We are preparing for Thanksgiving and all the family traditions that we have created thus far. One of my favorites is decorating for Christmas. I have 11 trees this year and I am so excited to put them all up in our new home. I can hardly wait. I will post pics as soon as they are up... Love, K

Keeping Up With thefurlongs!

I know it has been a while since I have written, (sorry Aunt Mary & Uncle Bobbie). I thought I would catch you up.
Summer is flying by, and we are soaking up every minute. As you know, the kids come home for the summer with only a 10 day interruption. I have modified my work schedule to be home on Saturday, Sunday and Monday, and well...to be honest I never work past lunch on Friday either. My work ethic and phylosophy is that I would rather bust my butt while I am there and get my butt back home to my husband and kids.
This summer has given us all an opportunity to relax and enjoy one another. Ashley, Matt's girlfriend came to work with me at BCBSF. We both have a newfound love for carpooling, lunches together in SJTC and pedicures at Bella Diva. We have really gotten to know eachother better and I am thankful to God for the blessing. Unfortunately she had to leave to go back to UCF a couple of weeks ago. The great news is that she will be back to work with me in August and probably at Christmas too!
Josh has spent much time this summer working with Stan, but I hav taken advantage of every moment to get close to him too. We have spent alot of time talking about faith, marriage, friends and believe it or not, POLITICS!
Katie has also had a fabulous summer. She has probably spent the most time on my coattails for which I am always greatful. I dread the day when she is independent and would rather do things without me. For right now, she has so much to share with me, she would follow me in the bathroom if I would let her!
Tyler is now in football. This may very well take over our whole family! It is a huge committment but we are up for the challenge. He is very excited...just got his uniform and pads this morning.
I am sad to take the year off of scouts, but I know we will have fun at MAA. Earlier in the year we had to remind the children that we have a one activity rule in our home. Josh and Katie both chose to participate in the Praise Band at our church. That choice allowed us to say okay to Tyler. I cant imagine us doing any more than this! You know how we are...family game nights, family movie nights, church... our lives are so full. For this I am so greatful.

You Are My Son-shine / A Note to Tyler

You always have been. Since the day you were born. I have sung this to you and with you a million times. My heart skipped a beat when the call came that you were hurt. I am thankful for the angel that watched over you, I am well aware that it could have been worse.

Now we watch you and wait for you to heal. So, so many people rally around to show their love and support. You are a very loved little boy. Besides, you are going to have an awesome scar. You can create great stories about the rabid bear that you were saving your sister from...

I have to say, you are tough as nails and I am so proud of you. I love you so much. - Mommy

k2

Hey, im Katie(k2) as you know i love to shop and sing and dance well i like everything pretty much....:) but family friends and god are my top priority in life. and plan to keep it that way. hope you enjoy our family blog- k2

Welcome to Our Family Blog

Welcome to thefurlong family's blog! I am so excited. I have wanted to begin a family blog page for quite a while now. I was inspired by Becki who has a wonderful blog page for all of her family and friends to visit, and by the LeSage's who have an awesome family website. Maybe you guys can teach us as we go... Have a blessed day! with love, K1 & K2